Saturday, 22 March 2025

"Navigating New Routes of Life"

Chaos, if it had a physical form, would be this city. About 100 kilometers away from her peaceful hometown, it stood as a stark contrast to everything she knew. Her new career demanded constant travel, and navigating this urban jungle proved to be quite an experience.

In the initial days, exhaustion was her constant companion. Accustomed to the serene rhythm of her small city and the familiar comfort of her Activa rides to university, the sheer pandemonium here felt overwhelming. She missed the gentle hum of her scooter, the familiar routes from campus to home. The crowded buses and trains were a mind-boggling assault on her senses. Learning the routes was a challenge, a series of wrong turns leading to expensive auto rides and a persistent sense of being utterly lost. Yet, with each wrong turn, she discovered a mini-adventure, a hidden corner of the city she wouldn’t have otherwise seen.

Traveling alone forced her to be more observant and independent. She began to appreciate the small moments, the fleeting beauty of the everyday. She became a silent observer, piecing together fragments of lives unfolding around her. Each person on the bus, on the train, had a story.

One day, she witnessed a poignant scene: an elderly woman, clearly disoriented, boarded the bus, unsure of her destination. She learned that the woman was mentally unstable, abandoned by her children. In that moment, a stranger stepped forward, offering help and guidance. It was a stark reminder that good humans do exist, even amidst the chaos. That moment, she felt a sharp pang of longing for her parents, her little sister, and her best friends.

Especially her best friend from school. They used to travel together, a familiar routine of picking her up and dropping her off after university. She missed those beautiful, simple days. Suddenly, she was thrust into a world where she had to navigate everything alone. Even the smallest tasks felt daunting. But these past few days had taught her so much. She had adapted, and surprisingly, she had started to appreciate the same chaotic city that once overwhelmed her. She found a strange comfort in the rhythm of the trains and buses.

And even when traveling alone, she was discovering that connection was always possible. She had formed bonds with a few colleagues, finding solace in shared experiences. Looking back, she never thought she’d say this, but she began to enjoy the solo travel she initially dreaded. The chaos that once intimidated her now felt like a vibrant energy, and she was excited to see what this city had in store.

1 comment:

  1. Great that she started adapting so soon. I took years and many times thought to escape. But now it's the new home. My best wishes for your career and awesome writing. Keep going,.

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